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06/03/2025 8:55 am
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Hello cat lovers 😻
We brought two cat kids a bro and sis , 6 months at the time ,into our home 18 months ago.
They were feral,cared for by a foster mom. It’s been a very slow process of acclamation. They run away when we get near but they will let us pet them when they approach on their terms. One place is in our bed. They will sleep next to us on either side of the bed so they have a quick escape route :). Do you have suggestions to help on the road to lap cats 😻😻?
Thanks ever so for your love of cats and their people !
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@barbaragarza-brickley
Hello Barbara
I also adopted a feral kitten two years ago. The acclimation process requires time, patience, and the right approach.
Avoid making fast movements near the kittens and refrain from staring directly at them, as this might seem threatening. If they appear nervous, try slowly blinking at them. This relaxed gesture—giving two or three slow blinks while gazing away between each blink—signals to your cat that you are non-confrontational.
Use food and treats to build their trust through positive reinforcement. Spend time with them by reading softly or sitting quietly on the floor while you all listen to calming music. Let the kittens approach you on their terms to allow them choice and control.
When the kittens begin to eat from a dish next to you with your hand touching it, start offering them something tasty from your finger. Once your cats are comfortable eating off your finger, you can use this to encourage them to come onto your lap. You can also place a dish in your lap and allow the kittens to climb onto you while they eat. The more confident kitten will likely start first, while the shyer one may need individual attention. Try to lead the braver kittens as close as possible and see if they will make eye contact while licking from your finger.
Provide plenty of hiding spots, such as tunnels, boxes, and cat condos. Stick to a routine, ensuring that you maintain a consistent feeding and play schedule unless it’s necessary to change it.
Lastly, target training should be introduced to engage them further. Targeting can effectively guide an animal’s movement without using force. This method helps your cat understand that your hands or objects are safe and enjoyable rather than frightening.
We hope this is helpful to you.
Melina