How to Properly Introduce a New Bengal Cat

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On April 8th 2016 I lost my soul mate cat Meeko. We had gone through a tumultuous year and a half of ailments for him that included going deaf, losing a front tooth, undergoing radiation for hyperthyroidism and finally a kidney disease diagnoses that took him from me.

I had adopted him with an estimated age of six and had spent ten all too brief years with him, so he was at least sixteen and possibly older. I spent an entire month crying; everything seemed to remind me of him and I was not letting go.

Online advice was to get a kitten but I felt that would be a huge betrayal and I was in no way ready to get another cat. Besides, we had another cat at home, Mew, who was very much enjoying being ‘only cat’. How to introduce 2 kitten

She had just turned eleven and had gone through two Labradors, one Meeko and two cats my daughter brought home and then moved out with and I could tell she was reveling in the knowledge that she was the sole survivor. She even sat on my lap a few times for the first time ever but if I dared to pet her she would bite me.

Not the friendliest beast in the world. On Thursday May 5th, I got a condolence card from my vet and I just sat in my car and sobbed. It was still a very raw wound. Two days later my daughter emailed me this photo of a Bengal kitten in a pet shop.

I don’t know what there was about that photo but he grabbed my heart and I KNEW this was a cat I could love. Husband and Mew Lover was asked his opinion and uttered the fateful words “I’ve always wanted a Bengal” and my son and I were off like a shot to view the baby.

You know if you bring the cat carrier with you that you have already decided. So “Jerry” came home with us and was promptly renamed “Mungojerry” which swiftly became just Mungo. The photo was deceptive. Mungo very rarely sleeps and is never still, but he is after all a Bengal.

Introducing a Cat to a New Home Is Never Easy

bengal cat kitten

So Mungo joined our household and at first Mew was quite interested in him, sitting at a distance and watching him play and hissing at him if he dared to get anywhere near her, but after a while Mungo started to want to engage with her and that’s when the problems started.

Mew is a senior cat now enjoying (or was) her retirement and Mungo is a toddler full of beans who just wants to run like the blazes and chew at anything he could find, so we had a lot of this going on (see right).

He never hurt her but she did not care for being jumped on and was walking about the house looking about her constantly for the annoying pouncer, and basically retreated into the dark caves of my sons’ rooms.

I felt bad for her; this was her home first and she was not exactly getting to live a peaceful life unmolested. We hoped that neutering Mungo would help but he barely noticed the procedure had occurred and went back to Tigger-bouncing around the house and body slamming Mew. So I was looking for a solution.

How I Went About It?

Bengal catMany people wonder whether do Bengals get along with other cats. All the online advice was to get a second kitten to engage and occupy your baby so they would leave the older cat alone.

Husband was not down with this as he thought it would create a situation where the two of them ganged up on Mew and Mungo was staying because after sinking nearly $2000 into him he was now an investment, besides he was so beautiful he made my heart jump. In the weeks and months since we got him I had let go of my grief for my lovely Meeko and was utterly fascinated by this new boy who was the opposite of my poor elderly cat and was so full of life and joy.

The contrast actually made the transition easier as there was almost no comparison between the two. Where Mungo was too busy to sit on a lap and was always charging around the house, up the curtain rods and dislodging the furniture, Meeko was almost a part of my body, always sitting on my lap and staring up at my face and only leaving to use the facilities or when he was fed.

Now I also had to worry that a kitten would upset Mungo who might not want to share his toys or me (not that he really associated with me, but whatever room I was in, he was in, staring down at me from whatever perch he had found)

One Bengal Is Never Enough


So I made a phone call to the pet shop where we got him from and asked if they had any Bengal kittens. I was specifically looking for a female (Mungo I felt would want to be the only male), not a baby (he is massive at six months and I didn’t want him hurting a small kitten) and from the same breeder (as he is in perfect health and fabulously beautiful).

Lady at shop said they had a kitten matching every one of those criteria but they had just transferred her to another store. Daughter was on her way over for pizza but as she exited car was greeted by me with a cat carrier saying “We are going to see a kitten!” (again, if the cat carrier is going with you know what that means…).

Cue scary drive across the Ontario border (we live in Ottawa which is a stone’s throw from Quebec)introduce bengal kittens where we careened through dirt roads with no cell phone coverage and maneuvered the traffic lights which baffled me to get to an out of the way mall that closed at 6pm.

As soon as we saw her it was a done deal. She was a little Mungo clone (most likely same father, different mothers) and had been reduced in price due to being ‘old’ at four months. So she was packed into the cat carrier and whisked home and named Moya (all my cats have M names…unsure why this is a thing). She was promptly put into a safe room while I decided how to proceed.

Follow the Rules

bengal cat training

Introducing two Bengal cats is a real challenge. So I went over all the ‘rules’ for cat introductions and decided to follow them to the letter.

First, Moya was taken to the vet to get her FIV and Leukemia tests as I was not going to fall in love with her and find out I couldn’t keep her. She got negative results on both so we were good to go.

She was kept in her safe room which was equipped with food, cat water fountain, a window ledge perch, toys galore and a spanking new litter robot. A few days after her arrival she had her vaccinations updated, fecal test (also negative) and deworming.

Vet recommended 14 days in isolation room, while internet said 7 was enough. In the meantime, Mungo figured out she was in there and took up constant vigil staring at the door. I had moved his food dishes to the door of her room and put a towel there covered in her scent, but he was growling and hissing and acting very angry towards me. I was worried I had made a terrible mistake.

Patience Is the Key


After about four days of this (hissing continuing) I put him in my room with the door closed and let her explore the house and spread her scent around a bit. She enjoyed that very much and was getting pretty annoyed at being shut in the spare room all day. Mungo’s hissing was lessening a bit and they were passing the towel back and forth under the door.

Mew meanwhile was enjoying life as Mungo had forgotten she existed as he was now obsessed with THE DOOR. On day 7 I opened the door and let him see her.

Owning a Bengal cat is no easy, a ballet of Bengals began where they kept peeping around the open door and then backing off (with hissing). No real conflict happened so I was encouraged, but after about a half hour I closed her back in.

The next day I again let them have some time to see each other and again there was a lot of back and forth with them darting at each other and then backward. After an hour they were shut off again.

The next day I just went for it and let her out. A lot of running ensued. It was like galloping ponies around the house for the whole night with admittedly some hissing and growling but they seemed to be enjoying the chase, and Mew was relaxing elsewhere.

Moya still slept in her safe room with the door closed and was pretty good about that now she was seeing the rest of the house a bit. Every night I then let them have supervised play until we got to the 11 day since her arrival mark, which was a Saturday, and that was the day I opened the door for good.

She has been with us now 20 days and for the last 7 I have not shut her in at night and everything is going very well. They play ROUGH but she gives it back and chases him as much as he does her and they now sleep on the cat tree together once they have worn each other out.

Yesterday I started moving Moya’s litter robot to the basement to join the other two; it has an interim spot at the top of the basement stairs and by next week I hope will be in its permanent spot.


Mew has been visiting us overnight in bed for the first time in months and seems to be relaxed now she knows the heat is off of her. I wasn’t too worried about cat introductions with her as she has been through so many, and the few times Moya has run into her Mew lets her know to back off and she does.

Unlike Mungo she knows her place. So now we have one old lady cat and two baby Bengals and it seems to be going very well.

cat9There is a lot of destruction and running and I’ve had to hide all my TV remotes and clear off the kitchen table and counters as they are into everything, but it has worked out well.

I very much recommend taking great time to introduce Bengals to each other as they are very territorial. I also would be very wary of bringing in another male if you already have one.

I don’t think Mungo would have as easily adapted to another boy. Finally, if you are going to get a kitten for your kitten, as I did, do it sooner rather than later as the younger they are the easier it will be for them to adapt.

Sadly I have no photos of them together as they are too busy RUNNING around the house together but here they are on the same bed at different times.


She looks tiny next to him but the way she is eating I do think she will catch up soon. Mungo has been eating premium Tiki wet cat food since two months old and has grown massive; she was eating store kitten food for four months but rejects that now in favour of the wet.

After going through kidney disease I am a huge fan of wet food and if I could get them on that alone I would. I definitely think cat fountains are a great idea and they have one each. My house has a constant background noise of flowing water.

I am starting early making sure they eat the best food and drink a lot. Cats need our help from day one to ensure they do not develop this awful disease.

So that is my Bengal Introduction story and how I managed to get over my grieving. It may not work for everybody but my heart was ready to love another cat and now I have two (three when Mew lets me).

About the Author:

Caroline was born in the States but grew up in Canada with very British parents and has always had cats in her life. After a brief detour into loving Labradors when her kids are little, she has embraced her inner self as a Crazy Cat Lady and now spends all her money on toys for her Bengal Kittens. Her house now looks like it is inhabited by toddlers.

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  1. Beto Santana

    Hi All,
    Great article, just have a question:
    I have A Bengal 3 1/2 yr and he is quite stressed, most of the time, I brought a new Bengal kitten last week, she is coming around, but my new kitten is very energetic bouncing, and jumping on her when she comes in to say hi. Is that normal? Or should I interfere?

    1. Avatar photoAll About Cats Post author

      Hi Beto,
      From what you’re describing it seems like you should let it run its course. As long as no aggressive behavior is displayed (hissing, growling etc…).

  2. David

    Hi Caroline,

    Thank you so much for writing this. Me and my wife were just thinking about getting a Bengal.
    We live in San Jose CA. Can you recommend a cat breeder? We’d like to hear from you what are the things we should check before buying a Bengal cat

    1. Caroline

      Well I cheated and got mine from a pet shop which I know is a bad idea but they were from a local breeder which I think is definitely a good idea, and of course you check for what you check for in any cat; clear eyes, no runny nose, socialization (although frankly Bengals are stand offish and like to be held/touched on their own terms only). If I were going to a breeder I would definitely want to check out the parents to see the markings, although it is hard to tell in a kitten. Mungo was pretty dark only when we got him and now he is stunning as he grows and the patterns of his fur are stretching out. Bengals are an adventure though, very different personalities from any cats I’ve ever had. I kind of miss being a lap to sit on but they are neat to watch and they are affectionate but again, on their terms only

  3. Nitrisha olivier

    Hi, we have a snow Bengal 8month old male and got a rescue Bengal a week ago vet thinks she’s between 6month and a year old ….both are sterilized….my snow want to play and sniff, but our new bengal girl just crowls and hiss….and attack….Vet told us she was coming into heat when we had her sterilized thought problem would be solved but no…it calmed a bit…is this how it going to be or should I be patient? They are fine eating in same room

  4. Erin

    Thanks, very helpful! I have a 9 month female bengal at home and in a week we’re getting our 2nd–2 month male bengal. Same breeder. I’m a little worried because we live in a studio apartment and I don’t want to block off the bathroom to our female bengal, as we’re toilet training her. Do you think keeping the boy kitten in a cage is a terrible idea? That’s the suggestion I’ve been reading online.

  5. Caroline

    I would never put a bengal in a cage! That is going to stress him out and make him associate the newcomer with being imprisoned. You need to get a second litter box for him and isolate her in the bathroom with her litter box for at least a week and do the slow introductions. Apartment will make it hard and you will have to put up with a litter box in your living area but you want them to become best friends later on


    Hello, I have an option of taking in a ten year old, male rescue cat, who issued to being indoors. I live in a two bedroom apartment. I know my nine year old may still hanker for a kitten. Reading your story gives me hope that with opposite genders, male + female and slow introductions, this may be possible. Is there anything else I should think about? How likely is it that a kitten will allow walks with a harness? Do your neighbours ever remark on the chirping noise? Just trying to plan so that actions are sustainable. Thanks, Marie

  7. Charles

    I have been a kitten who was a breeder Adopted her one week ago
    Quite aloof but loves to be petted
    She is 3 years and is spayed She wants attention but won’t come over to me

  8. Vanessa Blair

    My sister likes cats and my mom thought of giving her a Bengal kitten for her birthday. It was explained here that she should teach them how to follow the rules and be patient. Moreover, it’s recommended to go to trusted shops when planning to buy a Bengal kitten.

  9. Betty Marcheschi

    Thank you for sharing your experience with bengals. I adopted a 10 year old female bengal. She was an only cat. She has gotten use to my senior chihuahuas, but I wondered how it would work if
    I adopted another senior cat? Would it work? Should it be the same breed or does it matter? I would like a cat that would sit in my lap and Nala , like you said for some, is not going to happen.

  10. Lorri

    Friend has a Bengal that has had a tough 1st couple years, she is abt 2 , been moved several times , has a Doberman chasing her now. I want to get her out of there. I have licorice 14 happy content spoiled kitty he’s my pal, I ordered a water fountain also moving things from higher shelves. Problem is I don’t have a small place to introduce her, litter box is in the bathrm, what do I do? I will be here all the time I am disabled. Please help as I feel bad for her & want less stress of another new place for her ty

    1. small mallory photoMallory Crusta

      Hi Lorri, thanks for the comment! I think it’s okay to introduce a new cat to the home without providing a separate room for her, as long as you have some nice elevated areas (like the higher shelves you’re clearing out). Ideally, Licorice and the new cat should be able to establish their own territory and learn to know one another without being separated by doors. Just try to avoid creating any spots where either cat can get cornered by another. Making sure the food and water are separate and not putting the litter box in a corner will help. Good luck!

      1. Lorri

        Ty She has been here a couple of days, I did get her a small litter box she refused to use his, Have had 1 big row lucky licorice has not many teeth left no blood shed. She hides a lot but will come out & play. I did hear from 1st owner she may take her back soon, I’m trying not to be heartbroken ( she has a dog also) I am going to get her & licorice to get along & then she will have to leave !?! Sigh, keep good thoughts for my new little girl she seems really small for a bengal, but she looks just like the pictures thanks again hope the growling stops soon

  11. Lorri

    Also 2d litter box is not an option , I have a huge tote with a door cut out & open the handles for cleaning, licorice is 16 lbs. ( was 20 ) only box that’s clear he could fit in . so I can’t lock her in the bathrm. My home is small : ( but its way better than where she is

  12. Isarma

    I found your article doing research as I’m currently looking into adopting a Bengal after losing my “soul mate cat,” as you put it, after 19 years. Your description of your grieving is SO familiar!! It’s been months (almost a year,) and my husband gave me a big hug and said he was proud of me when he caught me looking at pictures. Now that the horrible inevitable has happened, after months of grieving, I’m starting to realize how empty the house (and my heart) is. Thank you so much for sharing your story so poignantly and open, I appreciate that I’m not the only one who grieved so deeply for their furry ‘partners in crime’ as my husband called us. Bless you.