Cats are an integral part of the family, and you might wonder whether your pets see you as their mom. It’s unlikely that cats see people in the same way they would their feline birth mom, but it is possible that your cat sees you as a surrogate, and much of cats’ behavior and affection toward humans indicates that they see us as part of their social group.
It’s unlikely that cats see people in the same way they would their feline birth mom, but it is possible that cat sees their owners as a surrogate. Cats know that they depend on us for food and affection, and they respond to the loving behaviors we show toward them. Research has shown that cats interact with humans in the same way they do with other cats, suggesting that they see us as the same or at least part of their social group.
It’s unlikely that cats see people in the same way they would their feline birth mom, but it is possible that cat sees their owners as a surrogate.
Cats know that they depend on us for food and affection, and they respond to the loving behaviors we show toward them.
Research has shown that cats interact with humans in the same way they do with other cats, suggesting that they see us as the same or at least part of their social group.
Do Cats Think Owners Are Their Parents?
We will never truly know what our feline family members think of us, but science and research can help us to understand our relationship with our pets a little better.
Feline behavior expert John Bradshaw has spoken often about his research into what cats think about humans. Cats show the exact same body language and behaviors toward us humans as they do toward other cats. In contrast, dogs interact completely differently with humans than they do with other dogs.
When a cat feels safe and comfortable with another cat they will rub around their face and body, just as they rub themselves around our legs. This is a behavior that develops from their interactions within social groups in the wild. In their own family groups, a kitten will rub on its mother, while females rub on males.
Smaller cats will rub themselves on bigger cats. So there is some evidence of power dynamics here, which could be the same in the way they interact with us. We are bigger than our cats, and a female might be more likely to show this type of behavior toward us than a male cat.
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Do Cats See Us As A Mother Figure?
John Bradshaw’s research and ideas might be the first evidence to suggest that cats might think of us mothers, as they treat those around them just like other cats and don’t see much difference between themselves and us.
Cats know that they depend on us for food and affection, and they respond to the loving behaviors we show toward them. As their caregivers, we provide food and shelter as well as love and affection. Cats recognize this, and if there is one person in the family that spends more time at home with the feline family members, the cats might form a particularly strong bond with them.
This is known as imprinting, and once it’s happened, your cat will show a preference for you as opposed to other people in the house. That person might be the one who feeds, plays with, and nurtures the cat, so they will reward us by offering us the same.
Any cat owner will know how intelligent these animals are, and they can prey on our emotions just like a human baby. Cats don’t meow at other cats, but they meow at us, and it triggers our emotions as it sounds just like a baby crying.
We immediately give our attention, therefore cats might often get their way! Vocalizations are an important way for our cats to let us know they need something from us, but they’re also a clever way of tapping into our natural maternal instincts and emotions. This does not mean that cats see us as moms, just that they take advantage of our maternal instincts to encourage us to meet their needs.
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Body Language And Habits
Several behaviors cats display toward us are developed from their interactions with their feline mom as kittens. Cats often knead us with their paws or lick and nibble us. This is a behavior used to obtain milk from their mom and has no use to them as adult cats, but scientists think they might knead humans as it reminds them of the comfort they had as a kitten nursing from their mom.
So, cats do treat us like their mom sometimes and gain comfort from the bond we have with them. Our feline family members depend on us for food, happiness, company, and security, and as they cannot talk they use their body language to communicate with us.
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What About Kittens?
Once kittens are weaned, the mother cat will naturally distance them. Cats don’t maintain a close bond with their mom in the wild as they are generally solitary and territorial creatures.
But if a kitten is weaned too soon from its mom it might see us as a surrogate. Kittens will often want to be close to us to feel safe, warm, and secure. They also knead us and sometimes suck on our skin if they are not fully weaned. This is not necessarily them seeing us as their mom, but more them recognizing us as their caregiver and craving our care and security.
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Do Cats Think Of Us As Their Family?
Cats are unlikely to see us as their mom and more likely to treat us like surrogate moms, but they do treat us like part of their social group or family. We know that the behaviors cats show toward us mean they are likely to see us as the same as cats rather than treating us differently than they would other cats.
Signs that your cat recognizes you as family might include:
- Kneading your skin
- Licking or grooming you
- Purring or meowing at you
- Rubbing around you or headbutting you
- Rolling onto their backs and showing you their belly
- Bringing you gifts such as birds or small rodents they have hunted
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Cat behavior is a fascinating subject and one we are still learning a lot about. As pet parents, we all see ourselves as our cat’s mom, but it’s unlikely they view humans the same way they do their birth mom. However, research has shown that cats interact with humans in the same way they do with other cats, suggesting that they see us as the same or at least part of their social group.
Cats do recognize us as their caregivers and will show us plenty of love and affection in return for us providing company, food, and safety. Many signs of affection from our feline family members are behaviors they learn and develop as kittens while bonded with their own mom, and are habits they continue into adulthood as a means of bonding with their human family.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if my cat thinks I'm her mom?
There is no specific sign that your cat thinks you are her mom. But your cat will show affection for you by rubbing around you, lifting its tail, and purring to show they are bonded with you and to gain your attention.
Do cats see their owners as their mothers?
Cats don’t see us the same way they do their birth mothers. But we do know cats treat humans the same way they treat other cats. So, they recognize us as their caregivers in a similar way they would their feline mom.
How can you tell if a cat has imprinted on you?
Cats might develop a strong bond with a favorite person, known as imprinting. Your cat might show a preference for you, or show more affection by vocalizing, purring, and rubbing around you to demand your attention more than they do for other family members.
Is my cat imprinted on me?
Cats imprint on you if they develop a strong bond with you and consider you their favorite person. They will show more affectionate behavior toward you and demand more of your love and attention.
my cat sleeps up on my head on my pillow, he is so special; i was recently widowed and he mourned my late husband for about 3 months; he is doing well again.
I’m sorry about your husband and hope you and your cat are able to provide each other peace. Take care.